Recently, I received compliments about my girlish figure and questions about how I achieve it. My natural body shape and your natural body shape are probably different, so what works for me may not work exactly the same for you. My natural body features B cup-sized breasts (44B in the bra department) and womanly hips (when I reduce my waist size). My natural body lacks a shapely derriere – it is as flat as a pancake. I am 6 feet 2 inches tall and weigh 190 pounds. With all that to work with, here is how I work with it.
About a year ago, I wrote about how I achieved my figure. Sine then, being quarantined gave me a lot of time to experiment with new things, so almost all the shapewear I used a year ago has changed.
From top to bottom, I wear a bra, corset and padded panty and over it all that, I wear Spanx. These are the exact items I wear with links to my favorite lingerie store, Amazon:
👗 Playtex Love My Curves Feel Gorgeous underwire full coverage bra
👗 frawirshau satin lace-up boned underbust corset
👗 Rago Style 915 high waist padded panty with soft control
👗 SPANX Oncore open-bust panty bodysuit
Getting dressed, I put the corset on first. It reduces my waistline by a few inches and reveals my womanly hips that were hidden by male disguise.
Next, I put on the padded panty. Its “soft control” flattens my belly and its rear padding adds shape to the flatlands of my butt. It also provides coverage for the corset’s hardware.
I tuck my boy parts as I slip on the padded panty. Sometimes, the padded panty keeps the boys at bay, but sometimes it doesn’t, so I usually wear an undersized pair of high waist panties for added security.
Previously, I wore a longline bra to help flatten my midsection, but that is overkill while wearing a corset. So now I wear pretty bras like the Playtex Love My Curves or Victoria’s Secret Bombshells that I currently own.
Over everything, I wear the SPANX. It has a front cut out to expose whatever bra I am wearing. Meanwhile, it smooths out any uneveness that may occur between the bra, corset and padded panty. And like the padded panty, it helps to hide the corset’s hardware.
Voila! That is how I achieve my girlish 44-36-44 figure.
With that achievement under my belt, I often wear tight, body-con dresses (“if you got it, flaunt it”) and I never worry about my shapewear giving away my secrets to success because it is invisible.
![Wearing Bebe]( "Source: Bebe") |
| Wearing Bebe |
![Tallulah Bankhead with three chorus “girls” in the play The Garden of Eden, circa 1927]( "Tallulah Bankhead with three chorus “girls” in the play The Garden of Eden, circa 1927") |
Tallulah Bankhead with three chorus “girls” in the play The Garden of Eden, circa 1927
(Thank-you, Mikki) |
