Dear Stana,
When femulating out among the civilians, what are important things to keep in mind?
Jan
Hi Jan,
When I started femulating in public, I was afraid that people would recognize me as a crossdresser. As a result, I looked and acted as if I had something to hide; I walked with my head down, looked away quickly if I saw someone looking at me, and I avoided encounters with teenagers, with males, with anybody!
People who noticed, might wonder why I was acting as if I had something to hide and when they looked closer, they might figure out why ― because I was a guy crossdressing in public.
I was outing myself!
Once I figured out the error of my ways, I was determined not to out myself again. Since then, I have followed three rules that have helped me achieve that goal:
1. Act as if you belong, so walk tall and strut your stuff.
2. Don't look away furtively if other people look at you. Do the opposite: look back at them and disarm them with a smile.
3. You are a beautiful woman and you should be happy about it, so smile, smile, smile.
Best Wishes,
Stana
Do you need advice concerning femulation or other crossdressing-related matters, then e-mail me and I will happily give you my opinion on the matter. My e-mail address is stana-stana at sbcglobal.net.
When femulating out among the civilians, what are important things to keep in mind?
Jan
Hi Jan,
When I started femulating in public, I was afraid that people would recognize me as a crossdresser. As a result, I looked and acted as if I had something to hide; I walked with my head down, looked away quickly if I saw someone looking at me, and I avoided encounters with teenagers, with males, with anybody!
People who noticed, might wonder why I was acting as if I had something to hide and when they looked closer, they might figure out why ― because I was a guy crossdressing in public.
I was outing myself!
Once I figured out the error of my ways, I was determined not to out myself again. Since then, I have followed three rules that have helped me achieve that goal:
1. Act as if you belong, so walk tall and strut your stuff.
2. Don't look away furtively if other people look at you. Do the opposite: look back at them and disarm them with a smile.
3. You are a beautiful woman and you should be happy about it, so smile, smile, smile.
Best Wishes,
Stana
Do you need advice concerning femulation or other crossdressing-related matters, then e-mail me and I will happily give you my opinion on the matter. My e-mail address is stana-stana at sbcglobal.net.
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