
Pencil skirts.
Crossing my legs and dangling a high heel pump on the tip of my stockinged foot.
Carrying a purse.
Taking my compact out of my purse to touch up my makeup.
Wearing high heels.
The clicking of my high heels as I walk.
Being called "Ma'am."
Even better... being called "Miss."
Wrap dresses.
When a complete stranger stops to say, "I like your dress!" or something else I am wearing.
Shopping at a clothing store that starts a dressing room for me and displays my name on the dressing room door.
Shopping.
When a man holds the door open for me.
Dangly earrings.
Wearing lipstick.
Admiring glances.
My shaved legs.
Wearing a scarf.
Realizing that while I am presenting as a woman, it comes so naturally that I don’t have to think about it.


Wearing Sofia Casmere.

Actor Matthew Martin in the San Francisco stage
production of Moby Dick! The Musical (2008).
production of Moby Dick! The Musical (2008).