More Stuff
Can you believe this is installment #15 of my Stuff? I find it hard to believe it myself and I’m grateful for the opportunity Stana provides for me to express myself.
Outfits
How many of us struggle with putting together an outfit? What goes with what? Does this color top go with the color or pattern in these slacks? Is this skirt too short for the venue? And what bag or shoes go with the whole thing? So many questions! Questions that crossdressers don’t learn about in the process of growing up. Fortunately, there are answers.
I’m grateful to a couple of GGs in my life who help guide my choices. One of them, GiGi, whom we met in Stuff 13, offered this suggestion about proportions and some good guidelines to follow:
- Short over long: blouse tucked into pants; cardigan and pants; crop-top over pants.
- Long over short: long tunic over shorts; untucked blouse over skirt or shorts; long blouse over ankle-length pants.
- Fitted over non-fitted: fitted top over a flowing skirt; button blouse over not so tight pants.
- Non-fitted over fitted: loose blouse tucked into cigarette pants.
- Short over short: short blouse tucked into short skirt, generally for the young set.
- Long over long: very aging and often unflattering. People can dress that way if they're self-conscious about their body or shy. But it has the opposite effect.
- Fitted over fitted: slutty territory and not great for blending in.
- Loose over loose: very aging.
Hopefully this provides you with a start when pulling together your next outfit. But remember that these are simply suggestions and you still have to find what works for your body and sense of style. You’re free to follow or disregard as you see fit. Just be sure to look critically in a mirror to see the whole effect. It’s sometimes difficult to put aside our “pink fog” and see what is really there.
It’s nice to have a friend to consult with too. I’m grateful for the advice of a second GG, whom I’ll call Alicia, for her suggestions when I’m pulling an outfit together. Alicia is familiar with my closet and can offer good suggestions about what top/bottom to wear together. Sometimes I’ll send her a picture of what I’m considering and she lets me know if it works or doesn’t. She suggests even the small details about wearing the top tucked in or left out for the best look.
I’ll be back
After I figure out what I want to wear tonight, I’ll be back with more Stuff. In a later blog post I’ll cover occasions to dress for. Comments are welcome either here on the blog or by email to Jenn6nov at-sign gmail dot com. JJ is always looking for more stuff!
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| Wearing Venus |
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| Ayushmann Khurrana femulating in the Indian film Dream Girl 2. (Suggested by Jennijon.) |