During my last Halloween at work en femme, somebody posed the question, "If you look this good as a woman, why bother being a man?"
Five months later, there is still a low-level buzz at work about my Halloween presentation. I understand that some people wonder when I am going to drop the other shoe and present en femme full-time.
Which indicates that some people have concluded that there is more to my Halloween presentation than just Halloween.
My spouse is not on-board with me living full-time as a woman. I will not bore you again with the details, but I will simply state that I have made commitments to my spouse that I plan to honor, which precludes me living full-time as a woman.
Recently, I read about a girl who was in a similar situation as mine. Everyday she left her home in boy mode, dressed en femme at work, spent the day en femme and at the end of the work day, changed back into boy mode and returned home. In her case, it was to hide her girl from her children. Her spouse knew what was going on, but I do not know if she was supportive or not.
That daily routine sounds exhausting, but it is an option.
Maybe I could try it one day a week, see how it goes and build up to doing it five days a week.
It will make my work day longer because dressing and undressing takes time and I would do that on my own time, not company time. But practice makes perfect and over time, I probably can streamline things and cut some time off the processes.
I believe that Human Resources would support me because the head of HR already asked when I was going full-time.
What's holding me back?