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Any Color As Long It’s Red
By Monika KowalskaRed lipstick boasts a rich history, evolving from ancient adornment to a modern symbol of empowerment. Recent archaeological findings revealed a 4,000-year-old vial in Iran containing...
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Stuff 74: Bling
By J.J. AtwellDo you bling?When you get dressed do you include some bling in your outfit? How much do you use? What kinds of bling do you use? Is it enough? Too much?Three Bling RuleHave you heard...
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Father’s Day Gift Guide
What to Buy Dad as He Embraces a More Feminine FutureFather’s Day is upon us once again — but in today’s enlightened, equality-forward world, the classic Dad Gift Guide needs a serious style refresh....
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The Beach Boy Died Today
I love music. Last time I looked, I had over 15,000 songs stored on my computer. A lot of rock, but most other genres, too, but definitely a lot of rock.My interest in rock music was kindled by The...
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Boob Banter
Two 20-something ultra-feminized besties or “male ladies,” Kylee and Braydenne, chat over matcha lattes at a café, casually debating the next “natural step” in their journeys under the matriarchy:Kylee...
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Stuff 75: Confidence
By J.J. AtwellAre you confident in your femme presentation?Over many episodes of Stuff, I’ve talked about how you present in public and the role that your confidence plays in your believability. Did...
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How to Buy a Dress (For Men Who Crossdress)
Here’s a practical and confidence-boosting guide for men who crossdress and want to buy a dress—whether it’s your first time or your fiftieth. The key is to blend self-expression with smart...
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Thighs Wide Open
By Monika KowalskaI used to hide my legs like state secrets. Summer after summer, while other women breezed past in linen shorts and sundresses, I stayed covered, convinced my legs weren’t quite ready...
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Shapewear Shopping Guide for Womanly Men
Shopping for shapewear as a male crossdresser can be fun, empowering and a little daunting if you’re new to it. Here’s a step-by-step guide—part practical, part playful—that blends functionality with a...
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Blend In or Stand Out or...
Crossdressing can serve many purposes depending on the individual's goals, personality, context and emotional needs. Two contrasting motivations—blending in versus standing out—highlight the wide...
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Stuff 76: Spring Cleaning
By J.J. AtwellTime to clear out stuff?Traditionally, spring cleaning is a time to go through the whole house cleaning things and tossing out junk. Yes, I’m aware that we are into summer as I write this...
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The French Confection
Why do some men enjoy dressing as French maids? (I have done so myself for Halloween.)Erotic Roleplay and Power ReversalThe French maid outfit is a classic fetish costume: revealing, submissive and...
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Why Vintage Dresses Never Go Out of Style
By Monika KowalskaThere’s something truly magical about vintage clothes. For me, it’s not just about fashion, it’s about history, memories and a beautiful connection across generations. I discovered...
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Tips for Male Bridesmaids
Here are practical and thoughtful tips for male bridesmaids (sometimes called “bridesmen” or “bride's attendants”) to help them confidently support the bride and blend into the wedding party with grace...
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Men in Diva Dresses
Your Face Sounds Familiar is a popular international reality TV format that originated in Spain as Tu Cara Me Suena and has been adapted in many countries, including the Philippines, the UK, and...
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Four-Inch Heels
They marched, grilled, and mowed the lawn…Now they powder, preen, and stretch at dawn.They ruled the house with fists of steel…Now it’s aprons, blush, and four-inch heels!
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Stuff 77: Long Nails
By J.J. AtwellPress-on Nails?When I dress I love to use press-on nails (Kiss brand usually) to make my hands look a bit more feminine. How about you? Some CDs have difficulty finding press-on nails...
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Doing Your Eyes
I have been femulating for over 60 years! Over that time, I have done my eyes in different ways, but “lately” (like the last 20 years or so) I have been using the same routine to do my eyes and I...
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Making Up: The Rest of the Story
Yesterday's post described how to make up your eyes. Here’s a detailed and easy-to-follow guide for applying makeup to the rest of the face, specifically tailored for girls like us aiming to feminize...
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Full-Time
Crossdressers who live full-time as women often exist in a unique space between traditional crossdressing and transgender identity. While every individual’s journey is different, here’s a thoughtful...
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